My first month in M&A and I’ve already worked six straight weekends. Seniors keep saying ‘set boundaries,’ but how do you actually enforce that without being labeled uncommitted? What concrete strategies have veterans used to protect at least part of their weekends while maintaining deal momentum? Bonus for examples of phrasing that worked with demanding MDs. How do you draw the line without burning bridges?
boundaries? lol. they don’t exist in banking. but if u must try, schedule fake ‘family obligations’ every other sunday morning. better yet, let your MD overhear you complaining to HR about burnout – they’ll back off for exactly 72 hours.
i block 4hrs sunday AM as ‘client prep’ time (shhh) to gym & meal prep! works 60% of time. just say ‘prepping for monday meetings’ if asked ![]()
Negotiate weekend coverage rotations early. For live deals, propose alternating primary coverage between analysts with clear handoff protocols. Frame it as risk mitigation - ‘Ensuring fresh eyes on critical documents.’ Successfully implemented this in my team, reducing individual weekend hours by 40% while maintaining deal quality.
You’ve got this!! Batch weekend tasks into power slots – reclaim 2 hours daily for YOU!
Small wins matter!
My MD once saw me napping under my desk Sunday night. Next day, he taught me his ‘Saturday Sprint’ method – crush deliverables by 2pm Sat, disappear till evening. Key is overdelivering early. Still use this 8 years later.
Internal study at JPM showed analysts protecting 14 weekend hours weekly via ‘structured unavailability’ – blocking 3x 4hr slots with auto-reply stating exact availability. 73% saw no career impact when combined with clear upfront communication.